Several years ago, I was stuck in a dark place in my marriage.
This darkness seeped out as anger – I would storm and bang around the house in a passive aggressive fury, without saying anything to my husband.
It seeped out in my avoidance of intimacy – my libido was non-existent.
It seeped out in my energetic output – he could feel my anger and would respond by being more cautious and standoffish . This made me angrier (and around we would go).
Our marriage was starting to feel more unsafe and less loving – for both of us.
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